Stuck in Family Court? There's a Faster, Calmer Way Forward.
You don't have to spend the next 12–24 months trapped in a system that drains your wallet, your energy, and your hope. Most families settle in 6–8 weeks with the Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Method—without the chaos of courtrooms.
Talk to Sarah or Ken — no pressure, no obligation. Just clarity on your options.
If you're reading this, you've probably already experienced Family Court. The endless delays. The mounting legal bills. The feeling that someone else is making decisions about your life.
⏳ "It's taking forever."
Court dates get postponed. Lawyers don't return calls. Meanwhile, your life is on hold for 12, 18, even 24 months.
💸 "The costs are out of control."
Every motion, every conference, every hour of attorney prep adds up. Many families spend $20,000–$50,000+ without ever seeing a courtroom
😤 "I feel powerless."
Judges have 15 minutes to understand years of your story. Decisions feel rushed, impersonal, and out of your hands.
Sound familiar?
Here's the good news: Family Court isn't your only option. Even if you've already filed, even if things are messy, even if your ex is being difficult—there's still a path to resolution that puts you back in control.
Meet Sarah Bates — Your Guide Out of the Maze
Sarah Bates, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®)
Sarah spent 5 years as a family law clerk, sitting in courtrooms and watching what happens when families get caught in the legal system. She saw the carnage firsthand—good people making bad decisions under pressure, children caught in the crossfire, and settlements that satisfied no one.
That's why she became a Certified Divorce Specialist.
Sarah isn't a lawyer. She isn't a therapist. She's your guide.
She helps you:
✓ Understand the divorce process without the legal jargon
✓ Organize your priorities so you make clear, confident decisions
✓ Coordinate your legal, financial, and emotional needs in one place
✓ Avoid unnecessary court battles by addressing issues before they escalate
Think of Sarah as the person who helps you see the whole map—so you're not just reacting to whatever your lawyer or the court throws at you next.
"A Divorce Specialist isn't there to replace your lawyer—she's there to make sure you actually understand what's happening and why it matters."
Meet Ken Maynard — Financial Clarity Meets Real-World Negotiation
Ken Maynard,
Accredited Family Mediator (ACC.FM)
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA)
Ken has been helping families navigate divorce for 14 years. But his real edge? 30 years of business negotiation experience.
That means he knows how to:
- Untangle complex finances (business ownership, investments, pensions)
- Run the numbers so you know what settlements actually mean for your future
- Facilitate tough conversations without letting emotions derail progress
- Create agreements that are fair, enforceable, and sustainable
Ken specializes in cases where money matters are complicated:
- Business valuations
- Self-employment income analysis
- Property division with multiple assets
- Spousal and child support calculations
But here's what makes Ken different:
He doesn't just crunch numbers. He listens. He asks the right questions. And he helps you and your ex find solutions that actually work for both of you—so the agreement lasts.
"We don't just talk—we calculate, clarify, and craft agreements that stand up to legal and financial scrutiny."
The Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Method — How It Works
Most families think they have two choices:
- Hire lawyers and fight it out in court (expensive, slow, adversarial)
- Try to negotiate alone (risky, overwhelming, often fails)
There's a third option: The Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Method.
It's a structured, step-by-step process designed to get you from conflict to settlement in 4 meetings or fewer—typically within 8 weeks.
Here's How It Works:
Meeting 1: Clarity & Goals
We identify what matters most to both of you, gather financial information, and set the roadmap for settlement.
Meeting 2: Financial Analysis
Ken runs the numbers—property, income, support, debts—so you see exactly what different settlement options look like.
Meeting 3: Negotiation & Problem-Solving
We facilitate the tough conversations and explore creative solutions that meet both parties' needs.
Meeting 4: Finalize & Document
We draft your Separation Agreement or Parenting Plan, ready to be filed or reviewed by independent legal advice.
The result?
A fair, enforceable agreement—without the chaos, cost, or trauma of Family Court.
Meeting 1: Clarity & Goals
We identify what matters most to both of you, gather financial information, and set the roadmap for settlement.
Meeting 2: Financial Analysis
Ken runs the numbers—property, income, support, debts—so you see exactly what different settlement options look like.
Meeting 3: Negotiation & Problem-Solving
We facilitate the tough conversations and explore creative solutions that meet both parties' needs.
Meeting 4: Finalize & Document
We draft your Separation Agreement or Parenting Plan, ready to be filed or reviewed by independent legal advice.
The result?
A fair, enforceable agreement—without the chaos, cost, or trauma of Family Court.
"Is it too late? We're already deep into the court process."
No. It's never too late.
Even if you've already filed, attended case conferences, or had focused hearings—you can still pivot to mediation. Many of our clients come to us after months (or years) in Family Court, frustrated and ready for a better way.
The court will often endorse a mediated settlement, meaning you can step out of litigation and finalize your agreement faster than continuing through the system.
"It's never too late to step out of the courtroom and back into control—mediation can simplify even ongoing cases."
What if my ex won't agree to mediation?"
You'd be surprised. Many people are willing to try mediation once they understand:
- It's faster than court
- It's cheaper than litigation
- They still have a voice and control
Even if your ex is difficult, a skilled mediator like Ken can create structure and safety in conversations where emotions run high.
You don't need to agree on everything to benefit from mediation—you just need to be willing to reach an agreement without the court deciding for you.
And if they truly won't participate? We'll help you understand your options and next steps.
"I already have a lawyer. Can I still use your services?"
Absolutely. Many of our clients have lawyers and still work with us. Think of it this way: your lawyer handles the legal strategy, and we handle the settlement process. You get the best of both worlds—legal protection and faster resolution.
You can pause expensive litigation, settle with our help, and then have your lawyer review the agreement. It's a smarter, more affordable approach.
You can pause expensive litigation, settle with our help, and then have your lawyer review the agreement. It's a smarter, more affordable approach.
"What if we can't agree on custody or support?"
That's exactly what mediation is for. Ken and Sarah specialize in helping families find solutions to the hardest issues—parenting schedules, child support, spousal support, property division.
Mediation doesn't mean surrendering—it means steering your own outcome instead of letting the system decide it for you.
Even in high-conflict situations, most families are able to reach agreement when they have the right support and structure.
Mediation doesn't mean surrendering—it means steering your own outcome instead of letting the system decide it for you.
Even in high-conflict situations, most families are able to reach agreement when they have the right support and structure.
COMPARISON TABLE:
| Soft Landing Method | Family Court Process |
| 6–8 weeks to settlement | 12–24+ months (often longer) |
| 4 structured meetings | Endless motions, conferences, adjournments |
| You control the outcome | Judge makes decisions in 15 minutes |
| $5,000–$10,000 avg. cost | $20,000–$50,000+ (and rising) |
| Private, confidential process | Public court proceedings |
| Both voices heard & respected | Adversarial, win-lose mentality |
Start Your Path to Settlement
Why Families Choose Soft Landing Divorce
Because they're tired of:
- Waiting months for the next court date
- Spending thousands on lawyers with no end in sight
- Feeling like their voice doesn't matter
- Watching their savings disappear into legal fees
- Putting their life on hold while the system grinds forward
And they're ready for:
- A clear timeline (8 weeks, not 12–24 months)
- Affordable resolution (a fraction of litigation costs)
- Control over their own outcome (not a judge's rushed decision)
- Dignity and respect throughout the process
- A settlement that actually works for their family
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You've Spent Enough Time in the System. Let's Get You Out.
Family Court was never designed to help families—it was designed to process cases. You deserve better.
The Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Method gives you:
- A clear path forward (no more endless waiting)
- Financial clarity (know exactly what you're agreeing to)
- Control over your outcome (your life, your terms)
- A settlement that lasts (fair, enforceable, sustainable)
You don't need to agree on everything to move forward. You just need to be willing to try.
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📞 (647) 693 5595
What Happens on a Discovery Call?
Your free 15-minute Discovery Call is simple, pressure-free, and designed to give you clarity.
Here's what we'll cover:
✓ Where you are in the court process
✓ What your biggest concerns are (timeline, cost, custody, etc.)
✓ Whether the Soft Landing Method is a good fit for your situation
✓ What next steps would look like if you decide to move forward
No obligation. No sales pitch. Just honest information about your options.
You'll speak with either Sarah (if you need guidance on navigating the process) or Ken (if financial clarity and mediation are your priority). Or both—whatever makes sense for you.
✓ What your biggest concerns are (timeline, cost, custody, etc.)
✓ Whether the Soft Landing Method is a good fit for your situation
✓ What next steps would look like if you decide to move forward
GET IN TOUCH
Contact us for any inquiry.
Email Address
coordinator@softlandingdivorce.com
Head Office Phone
Toll Free: (844) 898-3200
Head Office
54 Cedar Pointe Dr #1207, Barrie, ON L4N 5R7
Clients have the flexibility to collaborate with either via video conference or in-person through an associate at any of our six Greater Toronto mediation centers, located in Aurora, Barrie, North York, Vaughan, Mississauga, and Scarborough.